Child Psychology
My reflection task is about child psychology. This subject is quite
comprehensive. I will
try to give information with a few examples. If parents behave
authoritatively and oppressively, their children will be insecure and will be
shaped according to what their parents want. I think that the behavior of
parents affects children deeply. That makes sense to me because children observe
their environment; in that way, they learn about the world. First, in
oppressive family structures parents set rules and children are supposed to adapt
to them. I believe there must be rules when bringing children up. For example,
parents should limit the watching TV and determine the sleeping hours, but the
reasons of the rules should be explained properly. However, I do not think it
is so good to control everything of child. If parents do this, the child will
always need them and will be dependent on his/her parents. The parents should
show their mistakes. However, they should not behave so critically since it can
break children’s confidence. Second, if they get always negative criticism,
they will not share what they have done, even if they have done good things,
because they are afraid of being punished. In this point, the importance of
appreciation cannot be neglected. I believe that parents should support the
children and they should not lead to right path, instead, they should give the
children a chance to make a choice. To sum up, I think that being so critical
has negative effects on children such as being shy, dependent on the parents,
fear of being punished or the feeling of being inferior. Also, I think
parenting issue is not about bringing dependent children up, it is about
bringing up responsible and respectful children.
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